When we go through hard times, we learn. We learn a lot. We are going to mess up. We are going to fall short. Missing the mark will happen countless times. It is important to remember, when we are in Christ, we are fully accepted and loved. When you feel like there is no way…
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Being slow to speak is not easy for me I continually try to work on being wise with my words, but I still fail. I used to think that if someone was shy and meek, that meant they were very mature and godly. I have many friends who display this quiet, calm demeanor. At one…
I saw a quote image the other day that said “what you take pictures of shows what you’re most afraid of losing.” Obviously this can’t be entirely factual, but it got me thinking. The pictures I take are the memories I’ll have later down the road. They’re the memories I’ll show my children and my…
When we go on a date, it’s usually dinner and a movie. As fun as that can be, it feels too routine. I am ready for a little pizazz. I am sure we can benefit from a few unique outings. It’s easy to get into a rut, so I made a list of five fun things we…
Encouraging your husband is a priceless gift you can give him. It’s easy to get frustrated and many of us find ourselves in a pattern of negativity in an effort to improve things. Instead, offering encouragement can create a more loving environment and draw you closer to each other. Proverbs 16:24 says, “Gracious words are…
I recently talked with a couple who have been married for over forty years. I asked them to please tell me their secret to their success. The wife told me instantly, “We formed a small of circle of close friends right away, and we help each other through everything.” The husband nodded in agreement. Marriages are…
We have five children. This makes it challenging for my husband and I to go out on dates. Okay, the oldest is married, but that means she isn’t here to babysit anymore. She is in full time school, works full time, and writes on this blog so she’s pretty busy. The second oldest is always…
“When you pray for your husband, especially in the hopes of changing him, you can surely expect some changes. But the first changes won’t be in him. They’ll be in you.” –Stormie Omartian, The Power of a Praying Wife “I’ll pray for you”—something I tell those around me on a regular basis. I find myself…
A couple of weeks ago we had a disagreement that lasted all day and into the next afternoon. I refer to this one as the 30 hour fight. We were not seeing eye to eye and there looked like little chance we were going to. Agreeing to disagree wasn’t agreeable. It started as such a…
This topic of outward beauty is a hot button. So hot, I am a little afraid to discuss it. Some think women should wear no make up and wear dresses. Some think women should wear lots of make up and wear fashionable clothing. Some choose to go under the knife, some choose to age naturally.…